Friday, August 7, 2009
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Totally unnecessary.
Been finding fault in all the little issues as of late.
Don't bother, just need to whine to be fine.
School's being polluted by just too many unnecessary humans.
A girl wearing tight-fitting top, a checkered mini-skirt that's mini-er than mini and a pair of toots..oh..boots, i mean.
Every single step she took is accompanied by the stupidest 'dance' gestures I've ever seen.
Super irritating.
Couldn't stand looking at the bimbo but my eyes were stubbornly glued to her.
Please uh, you're in a school, not a club for tootness sake.
An effingly huge girl wearing something that's meant for Eva Longoria.
Felt like my eyes have been stabbed.
Please uh, put your brain, that has apparently plummeted to your ass, back to where it should be.
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Tuesday, August 4, 2009
DR. Love in da house.
I've got 2 clients under my care as of now.
Both clients are childhood friends of mine.
And I guess it's safe to say that they are both of higher intellect,
considering the fact that they got into their respective Uni with much ease.
But what happens when both are pinned down with relationship issues?,
though one of them is not even in an official relationship.
Dilemma? Fallen? Defeated?
Current situation of client A: Hanging.
Client A has been with her bf for over a year now.
And only recently, her bf opened up to her, saying that he's not sure of his actual feelings for her.
He said that he has not reached the level of LOVE and that that's something that they both should work towards.
Yesterday, she gave a lead to a probable cause of their tension: A third party.
Someone whom she knew and meet frequently.
Though this other person is not in the wrong because it's him that is confused.
According to client A, her bf felt some kinda unusual attraction towards this girl,
and is not able to fight the attraction off like he normally could.
As much as she doesn't want to end the relationship, she couldn't bear to wait any longer.
He's confused and indecisive, telling her that he needs more time to sort his feelings out and that he still likes my client and does not wish to part.
So he's honest and upfront. But what if he takes ages to come to a decision? All the more client A should try to regain his swayed attention, if she still loves him. Furthermore, it's just an attraction, nothing going on between him and the other girl. If his focus is back on track, they should be back fine though feelings for each other won't be the same as how it began.
Bottomline is, it shouldn't be a one-sided affair in a relationship. It has definitely gotta be mutual; both must want things to work out. If both parties are no longer keen or has uncertainties that seem to be unsettled within a period of time, might as well let the matters rest.
[Truth hurts, lies worst]
Current situation of Client B: Similar to client A.
Stay tuned.
[Emotions do overpower Intelligence]
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Sunday, August 2, 2009
I am
what I am.
Flat broke.
Grounded.
.
.
And,
smiling.
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Really?
Sidetracking is my middle name.
Or so it has been for the past few days.
Solely because it has got something to do with school assignments.
Without fail, everytime Microsoft Word & Powerpoint are up,
they'll be replaced by Facebook, YouTube and whatevernots, not long after.
And that is why, I can never be done with them on time as planned.
Now, is another of those sidetracking cases.
There'll be presentation later but "later then do slides lahh..." (been quite awhile since I TYPEd Singlish).
So anyway, woke up friggin' early to attend an interview that never happened FULLSTOP
Right, now back to what I was supposed to blog.
Bloghopped and found out that several friends have encountered or are encountering some problems with blogger.com.
Really?
Are there difficulties in loading up of pictures?
Lemme try that out.
.
.
.
.
K, so it took longer than usual to upload just this one picture.
Guess that's what my friends have been whining about yeah?
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Hmm.
Esprit wallet.
HTC Touch.
Truckload of tops and jeans of various colours.
Ladies' Boxer shorts.
Adidas slipper.
Specs.
Gifts for loved ones.
TRAVEL.with Mummy especially.
Visit new places and doing new activities.with him especially.
Treat friends.
Foodhunt, new good food.
Ellgy cracked-heel cream.
Working bag.
Scalp and ear treatment.
The.list.goes.on.
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Thursday, July 16, 2009
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Thursday, June 25, 2009
'Love' Story.
There is a friend of mine,
we gotta know one another through our other halves.
They have been going on for 3 years now,
triple of what we've achieved.
Even though we have just gotten to know in brief,
I shall say that the online chat with her yesterday (inclusive of the few meet-ups) disclosed so much about her relationship,
good and bad.
Of course, there are the smoothies and the bumps too,
but what startled me most was the fact that she has been living in lies.
She claimed she was tied down with his over-possessiveness, ridiculous restrictions, not allowed to do this & that, must do that & this or else. . .
Nonetheless, she still secretly does the things that she was disallowed to (shan't list them out here).
And from what I've heard, she's psychologically unstable,
to a point of self-destruction when things don't go her way.
On the other hand, he was somewhat forced to stay on with her,
due to the harm that she may inflict upon herself, or others,
if he doesn't play along with her ways.
He is also said to have changed for the not-so-good, since the commitment.
So, which side of the story to believe?
No doubt that they have been going on strong (or so it seems), shared laughters, jokes and whatnots, displaying affection, etc.
How much further can they go?
Let's pray for the best for them.
But the bottom-line is,
even though a couple may have interlocked their hearts, fingers (or whichever body parts they like), promising each other into an eternal life together,
that doesn't mean he/she already owns the other for life.
Restricting his/her freedom or robbing them of their own personal space and so on.
Secondly, people say they're honest and that they're not hiding matters from the other and blablahblab,
but again, how true is that?
It has proven to be an overstatement.
Just remember that whatever our actions or words, thoughts & intentions are, hidden or manifested,
He knows it all, inside and out.
Some may get to escape with their untruthfulness,
but don't feel too good about that Doods.
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Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Rants.
People tend to appreciate dearest ones only after receiving desperate needs from them.
If not, being thankful is so scarce.
People tend to be so protective of their dollars and cents which makes them appear to have no sense(s) at all.
Don't they realise that whatever they have, a million bucks or whatnots, are never theirs? Yes, NEVER, even though they've worked bloody damn hard to earn it. Sad, but true.
You're saying most people are just around to satisfy their worldly whims and desires,
but you yourself aren't practising what you preach.
When someone dear really needs it, you come up with 1001 reasons not to let them have it.
Please.
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Sunday, June 14, 2009
Hmm.
So there is this phrase that goes, "no secrets between us".
Some placed full emphasis on that saying it's for the best of the relationship.
But do they really hold on to that?
Like how sure can you be?
Even husbands/wives are close-mouthed about some matters, i'm pretty sure there are.
Because some things are better left unknown.
Then what if the partner gets to know about THAT/THOSE secret(s), somehow or other?
Outcome will be...?
.......
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Sunday, June 7, 2009
Monday, June 1, 2009
The Blog That's...
.....collecting dust.
So just let it collect even more.
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Thursday, May 21, 2009
Appendicitis (Wiki).

Symptoms
The typical history includes pain starting centrally (periumbilical) before localizing to the right iliac fossa (the lower right side of the abdomen); this is due to the poor localizing (spatial) property of visceral nerves from the mid-gut, followed by the involvement of somatic nerves (parietal peritoneum) as the inflammation progresses.
The pain is usually associated with loss of appetite and fever, although the latter isn't a necessary symptom.
Nausea or vomiting may occur, and also the feeling of drowsiness and the feeling of general bad health.
With the typical type, diagnosis is easier to make, surgery occurs earlier and findings are often less severe.
Atypical symptoms may include pain beginning and staying in the right iliac fossa, diarrhea and a more prolonged, smoldering course.
If an inflamed appendix lies in contact with the bladder, there is frequency of urination.
With post-ileal appendix, marked retching may occur.
Tenesmus or "downward urge" (the feeling that a bowel movement will relieve discomfort) is also experienced in some cases.
Insya'Allah, everything will be alright.
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Monday, May 4, 2009
Un-wiser.






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Thursday, April 30, 2009
Saturday, April 25, 2009
| ENTP - "Inventor". Enthusiastic interest in everything and always sensitive to possibilities. Non-conformist and innovative. 3.2% of the total population. |
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Friday, April 24, 2009
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Sunday, April 19, 2009
Friday, April 10, 2009
The Uninvited.
As I was hanging up the laundry at the front porch,saw this cute lil kitty from afar.
As soon as I opened the gate, it came running in.
My house must be extraordinarily cat-friendly.
Even my own cat is starting to get worked up by all the random kitties coming in.
Whatmore, right at the doorstep.
Cute lah!
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